I just want to say sorry for my recent absence between Mrr Amalie and the little Amalie's things went crazy very fast. But all is returning to normal lol.
Something I have noticed a lot of, is women who say "I would love to do what your doing but I just don't have the body confidence"....well ladies here is a little secret.....NEITHER DO I!!!!! I am a card carrying member of the my boobs are too small, my ass too flat and my thighs too wobbly brigade (and don't even get me started on my face).
Now you are probably wondering then how I do what I do for a living? You have all heard how "faking it" is probably the most important skill that a working girl can have; well that "faking it" is not just for orgasms or enjoyment...it includes faking a confidence you probably don't feel.
I have not yet meet a single person (either male or female) who doesn't have some issue with their body and what helps make a working girl successful is not about learning to love yourself (though that is usually a good thing); but rather learning how to project that whole "everyone wants me cause I am so damn good at it" persona.
So just how do you successfully fake it? Two things 1) Carry the secret...when interacting with someone have in the back of your head "yep I am goddam amazing in bed!", you probably will be laughing at yourself on the inside a bit, but that little smug smile, that hint of humour in your eyes will put the thought into their head and make you seem more desirable. The second thing is 2) Stop caring so much!!! Adopt the motto of "this is who I am and if you want it great...if not I really don't give a fuck"...yes these are to be moderated on a base by base situation however as a rule it works and remember they have issues too and self confidence (that bubbly personality) is essential!
"How do I take my sexual relationship to the next level?" - Anon
COMMUNICATION!! You both need to know everything about each others sexual activities and
in order to open up and heighten your sexual relationship you need to let them know about the good, the bad and the nightmares. It’s best for partners to initiate this conversation one-on-one in private, out of the bedroom, in a safe space try your lounge room or dining room and if you don't feel comfortable letting them know about your sexual past then perhaps it is not the right time to move forward.
Mrr Amalie and I had this conversation and knowing each other’s desires, preferences, and sexual past was vital in starting things off on the right foot. I told him about the sexual abuse I went through as a child, I told him about my desires and my fantasies, I told him everything, and in return he opened up to me.....it turns out we have a number of fantasies in common and have been enjoying a healthy and exiting sex life ever since.
Before you start giggling think about it, things like oils, bondage and submission are pretty standard. But if you have a latex fetish or cosplay fetish then you might want to sit him down first lol. Just remember do not be embarrassed, this is natural.
Monogamy......yes or no?!
People have different views on faithfulness in a relationship...maybe you want to explore polygamy or poly-amour. Whatever you are interested in you need to set clear boundaries with OH and with the 3rd, 4th or maybe 5th party lol. On a serious note though, i know a lot of people have the soul mate belief (I am one of them) however I also believe that you can love more than one person at a time....do you love one child more than another? Then why can't you love more than one OH?
TIP OF THE DAY - Undressing.....
1) Put your back to his front and rub up and down slowly
2) Move his hands to hold your breasts or your hips
3) Lean forward (brace yourself on something if possible) and grind your butt into his crotch
4) Help him sneak his hands under your clothes and (pardon the expression lol) dry hump with him for awhile.
5) Turn around and sit him down (try this on the couch or bed).
6) Start by taking the top off (if a dress try and keep the bottom half covered), lower your bra and have him play with your breasts.
7) Drop the bottom half but leave your undies on (G-string is really good for this). You should be naked except for your bra (with your breasts exposed), your G-string and your shoes (try for stilettos, they have an awesome look!).
8) Push your G-string to one side and let him fondle you....guide his hands to remove the G-string and as he is doing that undo your bra and kick off your shoes.
9) Now you are naked and both of you are ready!! I recommend moving on to the blow job :)
Well I think that is it for this blog...once again I am sorry about my disappearance but everything is back to normal and I am here if you have a question :)
Keep Sexy
Miss Amalie
xxx
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