Working Girl #14

Today I want to welcome SIN (Sex Industry Network - South australia) members to my blog, SINS play a vital role in the Sex Industry, they are a leading  offering guidance and support to working girls across the state and I think it is important to share the information about their services as it relates to this blog.

SIN offers a lot to both women and men in the Sex Industry and is run by current and former sex workers so they understand what we do and are here to help without "saving us" lol their services include:

- Peer Support

- Peer Education

- Outreach Programs (street, brothel, parlour and private workers)

- Sex Worker Safe Spaces

- Safer Sex Shop

- Needle Exchange Program

 

 

 

Now I have talked a lot about the fun, exciting, daring and practical side of working and I think it is time to talk about the downside and the pitfalls.

Obviously this industry can attract a dark side, the "easy money" is tempting for drug addicts, the desperate and the vulnerable workers; this makes them easy targets for sleazy low life creeps who manipulate, abuse and attempt to control them. Sometimes it is a case of working in or for a "boss" who is lousy. SIN helps protect these women and men, they offer assistance to those looking to get out of the industry or for those looking to get into a safer environment. They sell quality safety products including both male and female condoms to "massage parlours" to promote safety and will not only deliver these products but will also drive workers to the doctors for check ups and, well, the list of what these amazing people do is endless.

 

You will find groups like SIN in every state, protecting and supporting the workers, educating the "bosses" and fighting current government legislation (like the antiquated South Australia) for equal rights and safe working environments for Sex Industry workers.

 

So here is a request I am sending out...

 

SEX WORKERS AND SEX WORKER SUPPORTERS!!!

June 2nd is 'International Whores Day', a day commemorating the 1975 occupation of the Church of St. Nizierof in Lyon, France, by more than 100 sex workers. The event is considered to be the birth of the modern sex workers rights movement, and traditionally it's the day when sex worker activists all over the world rally for equal rights.

SIN will once again, rally on the steps of Parliament House, to draw attention to our inequitable employment standards, and demand the decriminalisation of sex work in SA.

We are sick of being criminals because of our chosen work, we are sick of being discriminated against, we are sick of having no OHS standards, and we are sick of being treated unfairly!

We invite all sex workers and sex worker supporters to join us!!!!

 

If you can't attend in person (yes we will be there), perhaps you could just leave a message of support on the SIN facebook page :) it means a lot to know that more than just sex workers believe in our rights.

 

https://www.facebook.com/events/397346527140468/

 

 

TIP OF THE DAY: Kissing

 

There are many ways to kiss but we tend to fall into the same pattern...so tip of the day is to shake it up and try something new. If you are a no tongue kind of person then give it a go...you don't have to ram it down their throat, but try sucking their tongue gently or little licks on their tongue and lips can be exciting too.

For those who are tongue wielders try keeping it in your own mouth...little kisses on the lips with partially open lips, perhaps try gently biting their bottom lip and sucking at the same time very slowly. Here is a YouTube video I found, they have a whole selection of kissing styles for you to try :)

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fc1ZYfLEMqU

 

THANKYOU, THANKYOU, THANKYOU my friends for your support, this means the world to Mrr Amalie and myself.

 

Keep sexy

Miss Amalie

xxx

 

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Working Girl #13

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Working Girl #12

Good evening ladies and gentlemen,

tonight I will be discussing (insert music) "BATMAN"!! Not really but I got a "work" phone last night which me-ows every time I get a text message and the joke is you have the "bat" phone for Batman and the "pussy" phone for.....me lol. (thankyou, thankyou I will be here all week).

So the story goes, I decided to put a fresh range of ads up and to give them the illusion of a "personal" connection I got a burner phone so they can text me...BIG FUCKING MISTAKE!!!! lol in 12 hours I got over 108 messages (incl some nothing to be proud of photos), multiple missed calls (despite me saying texts only) and various douches that wanted me to talk dirty so they could jerk off (not for free hun!) anyway, so point to story is they have not flipping stopped...at all....not when I sleep, not when I showered and not when I drove (do the men of this country have nothing better to do with their time lol).

Now i have been asked about the behind the scenes stuff. The dressing rooms where u shower / clean up between clients (we change in the kitchen area and as we share a shower with the clients, we generally wait until they are gone before we use it), do you have people who request certain looks of make up, or hair styles e.g. some men like piggy tails, braids etc? (some men may request a hairstyle like piggy tails, but it is very rare and i have never had a guy request makeup styles), does ur work supply/ have outfits or do u need to supply ur own? (definitely supply our own, we are after all different shapes and sizes not to mention the hygiene issues). Have u had any clients requested 2 of you ladies at once? (yes...most definitely yes!)

Question 1 "I have a question for your blog. Do you leave your clothes on all the time ?? As in corsets and stuff like that??" - S.H.
Sometimes we may leave on parts of our clothing, sometimes we leave on all but the panties and sometimes we are completely naked; it just depends on what the client is wanting.

Question 2 "Porn. Do any of your customers ever ask to watch porn as well when they're with you?" - J.G.
We don't have TV's in our rooms and even if we did it would be a little too obvious as to what we are doing there lol.



TIP OF THE DAY - Positions for Big Boned Guys
Doggy

Standing sex position

Woman-on-top

Reverse cowgirl

On the lap

 Well that is it from me tonight, i hope you have an awesome week :)
Keep Sexy
Miss Amalie
xxx

Working Girl #11

Good evening all,

I finally had a weird guy come into work the other night and boy did alarm bells ring! He was no threat to me but spent the entire time talking about how he had lost his temper at his new female boss...how he felt invisible and like a mushroom was kept in the dark and feed shit, he had gotten angry over (according to his perception) that the slackers were rewarded and the loyal hard workers such as himself were ignored...that was at the start of our session.
All of this reminded me how a lot of working girls are often put into the role of therapist, throughout it I was sympathetic and supportive, I suggested ways he may approach the new boss and how to communicate what he was feeling without becoming aggressive at her I massaged him and made him cum and sent him home relaxed and feeling important again. I just hope I did enough and that he doesn't do anything silly.

I have been asked to tell you how Mrr Amalie and I met and how I knew he was the one; I met Mrr Amalie 8 years ago, I was a single mother of 2 and during school holidays they went to their fathers home for visitation. I must admit I struggled with them going away (though now I do a happy dance lol) and my close friend invited me out to stop my stressing. Anyway I was rather drunk and in walked Mrr Amalie with a mutual friend (I had seen Mrr Amalie around town and he had served me where he worked before...remember very drunk!) I went up and kissed our mutual friend on the cheek then planted one on Mrr Amalie before leaning back and saying "do I know you?" He grinned and we spent the entire evening making out in front of a group of rather nauseated friends lol. The next day I showed him a picture of my 2 children and made it clear that they were my world and if he wanted to be a part of my life then they have to be his whole world too. He grinned and agreed to it, I then sealed the deal by saying to him "I am too old to do the dating crap and I am self centred, egotistical, moody, lazy and I am a slob! They are my good qualities so if you can deal with that then we are on". He thought it was cute (I thought he was crazy but he was warned lol). We have not been away from each other for more than one week ever since...I fell pregnant 3 days after we met (no he was not asleep!) and in 8 years we have never had a single argument, we are not the sappy type but we really don't function well without each other.
I am going to let him tell you his side of the story.....

 

                                                                  

INTRODUCING MRR AMALIE

Hi everyone,

Well the first time I saw Miss Amalie was seeing her walk through the shopping centre doors, with a small child on each side (screaming I might add) and she smiled and said "put me out of my misery" I was thinking "gee i'd tap that"  and went on my merry way. I did notice she had shown up at work a few times and I just had to be the one who served her so I virtually ran to greet her each time. Anyway so I happened to be out with a friend (thankyou very much Pom!) and the first person I happen to see was Miss Amalie and to my surprise landed a huge wet one on me and I guess the rest is history from there.....


TIP OF THE DAY - Bondage 101

4 Simple bondage positions; give these a try and not just on you...there is something to be said for tying your OH up and using toys on them!

• Spread Eagle: Anchor each wrist to opposite sides of the bed and do the same with each ankle; be creative in what ties you use (rope, scarves, restraints etc) and remember you don't have to be face up...face down with a pillow under your hips can add an element of surprise and suspense ;)

• Tied while seated; keep it simple to start off and make sure your research proper ties before using rope or trying anything complicated. The mirror is an added bonus and can increase the erotic sensations. 

• Tied to a bed with legs tied to the back of the frame this has advantages as the anus is visible and accessible, it allows for easier and more effective access to eat pussy/suck cock, it allows those who want to explore sensations to tickle her feet and the sensation of stretching her leg muscles.

• Tied up doggy style; There are different ways to achieve this type of bondage, the easiest way is to tie the wrists to the lower legs once again however before you try complicated knots or other positions make sure you have a solid understanding of safety.

I have also been asked for different tips...I promise I will get to each and every request in future blogs. :)

Keep Sexy
Miiss Amalie
xxx
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Working Girl #10

Good evening everyone,
I just want to say sorry for my recent absence between Mrr Amalie and the little Amalie's things went crazy very fast. But all is returning to normal lol.

Something I have noticed a lot of, is women who say "I would love to do what your doing but I just don't have the body confidence"....well ladies here is a little secret.....NEITHER DO I!!!!! I am a card carrying member of the my boobs are too small, my ass too flat and my thighs too wobbly brigade (and don't even get me started on my face).
Now you are probably wondering then how I do what I do for a living? You have all heard how "faking it" is probably the most important skill that a working girl can have; well that "faking it" is not just for orgasms or enjoyment...it includes faking a confidence you probably don't feel.
I have not yet meet a single person (either male or female) who doesn't have some issue with their body and what helps make a working girl successful is not about learning to love yourself (though that is usually a good thing); but rather learning how to project that whole "everyone wants me cause I am so damn good at it" persona.
So just how do you successfully fake it? Two things 1) Carry the secret...when interacting with someone have in the back of your head "yep I am goddam amazing in bed!", you probably will be laughing at yourself on the inside a bit, but that little smug smile, that hint of humour in your eyes will put the thought into their head and make you seem more desirable. The second thing is 2) Stop caring so much!!! Adopt the motto of "this is who I am and if you want it great...if not I really don't give a fuck"...yes these are to be moderated on a base by base situation however as a rule it works and remember they have issues too and self confidence (that bubbly personality) is essential!

"How do I take my sexual relationship to the next level?" - Anon

COMMUNICATION!! You both need to know everything about each others sexual activities and
in order to open up and heighten your sexual relationship you need to let them know about the good, the bad and the nightmares. It’s best for partners to initiate this conversation one-on-one in private, out of the bedroom, in a safe space try your lounge room or dining room and if you don't feel comfortable letting them know about your sexual past then perhaps it is not the right time to move forward.
Mrr Amalie and I had this conversation and knowing each other’s desires, preferences, and sexual past was vital in starting things off on the right foot. I told him about the sexual abuse I went through as a child, I told him about my desires and my fantasies, I told him everything, and in return he opened up to me.....it turns out we have a number of fantasies in common and have been enjoying a healthy and exiting sex life ever since.

Before you start giggling think about it, things like oils, bondage and submission are pretty standard. But if you have a latex fetish or cosplay fetish then you might want to sit him down first lol. Just remember do not be embarrassed, this is natural.

Monogamy......yes or no?!
People have different views on faithfulness in a relationship...maybe you want to explore polygamy or poly-amour. Whatever you are interested in you need to set clear boundaries with OH and with the 3rd, 4th or maybe 5th party lol. On a serious note though, i know a lot of people have the soul mate belief (I am one of them) however I also believe that you can love more than one person at a time....do you love one child more than another? Then why can't you love more than one OH?

TIP OF THE DAY - Undressing.....

1) Put your back to his front and rub up and down slowly
2) Move his hands to hold your breasts or your hips
3) Lean forward (brace yourself on something if possible) and grind your butt into his crotch
4) Help him sneak his hands under your clothes and (pardon the expression lol) dry hump with him for awhile.
5) Turn around and sit him down (try this on the couch or bed).
6) Start by taking the top off (if a dress try and keep the bottom half covered), lower your bra and have him play with your breasts.
7) Drop the bottom half but leave your undies on (G-string is really good for this). You should be naked except for your bra (with your breasts exposed), your G-string and your shoes (try for stilettos, they have an awesome look!).
8) Push your G-string to one side and let him fondle you....guide his hands to remove the G-string and as he is doing that undo your bra and kick off your shoes.
9) Now you are naked and both of you are ready!! I recommend moving on to the blow job :)

Well I think that is it for this blog...once again I am sorry about my disappearance but everything is back to normal and I am here if you have a question :)

Keep Sexy
Miss Amalie
xxx

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Working Girl #9

Good evening ladies,

I want to give a shout out to the loyal ladies of the missamalieaustralia facebook group.

The other day administration members of a "secret" group posted an anonymous story....a story which, in spite of their very own rule of "do not discuss what you see in this group", was very clearly from our group.
This story proceeded to cruelly attack a member of missamalieaustralia and when that member was defended by various members of both groups; the defending women (who were members of missamalieaustralia) were promptly blocked from the "secret" group by the administration.
I just wanted to say a HUGE good on you to the women who stood up and defended someone else when she wasn't there to defend herself; I also want to say a HUGE shame on you to the administration of the "secret" group whose hypocrisy is laughable; and finally I have saved a HUGE rack off to the mole who attacked another woman when her back was turned and didn't even have the decency to own it...yes I know you and your admin are reading this and you truly are low.

Now on to more interesting topics, like sex....sex and more sex lol.

Perhaps THE most common question I get asked is why? Why do I do this particular job? For me it comes down to freedom; in this role I choose who and what I do, I choose what hours I work on what days, I choose when to have a coffee break and for how long, not to mention I can sit around and do nothing but mess around on Facebook in between clients and of course I also earn more money than if I did a 9-5 job.
But there are some serious downsides to the sex industry, the role is as active as an athlete, requires sound business sense to get ahead and requires the same level of empathy as a community worker yet my role is usually deemed the lowest of low.

I was shown an important lesson this week, I thought perhaps people were ready to understand what we do but I am very sad to say that women in this profession are attacked and criticised for hiding what they do....yet when they come out they are labelled as whores, looked down on and their children sneered at. You want to know why we hide? We hide because men will often leave their "working girl" partners once they find out...not out of disgust for what she does (hell that is actually a common fantasy that a lot of men have) but because of what society says is acceptable and the fear of being ridiculed by society. We hide to protect those around us from becoming targets, we hide because other men seem to think that because we have sex for a living we must be "gagging" for overt attention from them (after all why would we say no right?) and finally we hide because we are told time after time that what we do is shameful. If you want to know why we don't tell...that is why.

Now onto a quick subject, I was asked if I had ever been in a "very bad situation"? To be honest I have to say no...This is due to the fact that working girls learn early on to listen to our instincts; and you should do the same.
Yes all women have instincts the difference is not to allow emotional connections or physical attractions to even enter the equation, even though it may seem a little harsh (Prince Charming is not as appealing without those two items in the mix).
If you are single and meeting a guy for the first time, or even if you are in a relationship...take a moment look at him, ignore the nice looks, what he says or how he makes you feel and look at just him...Is there any part of you at all that has a funny off putting sensation? Don't get caught up in fear about being alone or your children not having a Dad....that is how you get into trouble, instead trust yourself, you may not be able to describe why but understand that your brain is giving you a warning.

Now for the women wanting to spice things up with OH, why not indulge in an Erotic Date?
Here is a few things you can do for your Erotic Date

1. Kidnap or just pick him up from work and take him to a hotel
2. Visit porn shop/strip club/brothel/porn movie theatre
3. Get a couples massage with or without a happy ending
4. Skinny dipping (well it was fun as a tween right!)
5. Make a sexual bucket list together and get cracking!
6. Be in control/let him take the reigns for the entire evening
7. Play lucky dip with your sex toys...maybe do this at a swingers party?
8. Book the both of you into a BDSM introduction course (learn the proper way to do it )

TIP OF THE DAY - The safe fun way to spank a submissive

(for the sake of ease lets call her a her)

Safe words - choose two words one should be a colour like "red" to indicate she wants to stop, the second word should be a feeling like "happy" for when she enjoys something in particular.

1. Order her to go to her room and put on appropriate clothing, a loose short skirt, no panties, no bra and a tight low cut top. It is good to feel the sensation of the clothing without the clothing interfering with the spanking.

2. Order her also to come back to you and to kneel before you. The kneeling position commonly enjoyed is the same as is described in 50 Shades of Grey; she is to kneel, legs spread apart and her ass resting on her heels, make sure she's comfortable enough by providing her a soft spot for her knees. Her hair is to be put up or plaited back so that it is out of your way. Her upturned palms are to lay on her thighs offering herself openly to you. Make minor adjustments to her position so that it pleases you and do not allow her to look up at you unless you explicitly give her instructions to do so.

3. Touch her as if your fingertips were as light a feather and do not allow her to squirm because you are tickling her. Don't yell at her, just simply and firmly say: Stop!  Caress the inside of her thighs, slapping them softly and telling her: Open! Repeat until she's wet enough to go to the next step.

4. Place her in a position that will allow you to spank her comfortably and take her butt cheeks in your hand, cup them, fondle them, stroke them and squeeze them. The purpose is to get her mind ready, and to get the blood flowing nicely to her ass cheeks.

5. Lightly tap them Feel her ass cheeks; make sure her legs are still parted because you want clear access to her lips. You will want to check her moisture level from time to time, and to allow her to vent some of the eroticism she's feeling by playing with her clit.

6. Begin by delivering a few nice soft but firm blows, look for the areas on her ass and thighs she enjoys the most, and give you the most pleasure. After you get going try the harder blows, or more rapid blows so that you get a general picture of both of your likes and dislikes.
 
7. The force and frequency of your blows need to climb steadily. You should start soft and slow, and then a bit harder and than later a bit faster.

8. Swap slapping her ass, with squeezing and caressing, give her body time to fully enjoy the sensation of the blow.

9. Don't be afraid to hold her down in place as you deliver the spanking as long as she does not use her safe word; but at first you should remind her that squirming or ouch not even crying is a safe word. Make her feel reassured that you are watching for her safe word, but that you are going to take her to the edge and let her peek over and test the other side, until she uses her safe word.
 
10. As you land blows keep in mind that too many blows in one place tend to get too painful is not fun for most beginners.

11. Try switching cheeks or slapping the lower part of her ass right by her thighs with a little upper movement on the hand to cup the ass cheek. Let your fingers linger and then plunge them deep inside her. If she's wet, fondle her for awhile, then remove your fingers and deliver additional blows. 

12. Enjoy the power exchange you both share. It is like nothing else.

13. Afterwards talk about how she felt, what she was thinking, what she wanted to feel more of, and what she wanted to feel less of during the scene.

WARNING

Examples of some areas you should stay away from are her:
Spine, (I know, you had figured that out on your own) and her lower back, especially where her kidneys are.
The kidneys are very sensitive and are also attached to the muscular tissue directly connected to her flesh. A blow to the lower side of her back and you are dangerously close to causing damage to the kidney and to the injuring her. Not a good idea. Another area is her neck and her head, don't strike a blow to either as they can cause serious if not fatal harm.  Finally avoid her coccyx bone, (tail bone) a direct blow to it can cause the tip to break off and that is severe injury and pain.

Well, I know that this has been a heavier than normal blog but I appreciate the outlet I have here :)

Keep Sexy and remember I am always here :)
Miss Amalie
xxx

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# Working Girl 8!

Ok ladies, after much consideration I have decided to write a blog every second day; after work, kids, hubby and now this I am running out of time to sleep! lol

Anyway for todays blog I have decided to take the requests for descriptions of customers and to divide them into categories for you. You have the:

One Minute Men - These guys usually cum when you put the condom on! If they are really lucky they may just get covered and stick it in but never more than one thrust lol.

Dirty Talkers - These guys have watched WAAAAAY to much scripted porn! They insist on telling you how good it feels to fuck your pussy etc etc. The good side is all you have to do is say "oh baby fuck me" and he can't hold out.

Huggers -  These guys are usually older men who have lost their partners and just want to cuddle. Though sometimes it can be a guy who can't get a girlfriend and they use you as a substitute.

Rule Breakers - My least favourite, they insist on trying to push your boundries usually by asking for no condom and natural oral, or (this really bugs me), will try to kiss you and stick either fingers or his penis up your butt. They show themselves by saying "come on baby" "I pay you extra" and "you do this for me, I am good"

Ugly Guys - Usually the best sexual performances. They have a tendency to like going down on you for the entire session, in which case you can lie back and run through your grocery list.

Hot Guys - These as a rule are the complete opposite to ugly guys. They think since god gifted them with looks that they are automatically the best thing in bed and they will either lie there like a corpse or will drill you like a jackhammer with no foreplay other than you giving him a BJ.

Fetish Guys - Fetish guys can be either good or an absolute nightmare. There are the ones who like to suck and play with your feet, or guys like the hair dude; they are easy to satisfy with very little input from you. On the other hand I have had a guy who wanted to wear a nappy and guys who are right into sadism (the heavy stuff).

Fantasy Guys - Ever wanted to dress as a school girl/nurse/maid? Well this is his dream screw! Sometimes it isn't about what you wear some guys have a fantasy about sex in public or stranger sex or acting out a particular scene (it can sometimes get a little disturbing though lol)

Object Guys -  These guys are after one thing...their own pleasure. They have no interest in arousing you, in fact they minimise any touching or speaking and simply push you into different positions when they are ready.

Ethnic Guys - I don't mean this in a horrible way but there is certain quirks which different cultures have. Asian men tend to have small penis' and seem to act out some fantasy scene in their heads whilst riding you. Indian men (do have a smell) tend to leave their socks on the entire time....I have no idea why. The Greeks are forever trying to convince you to do anal and Aussies tend to make jokes after.

Question 1: "I don't know if it's to personal but I'd love to read on ur blog about weird clients or memorable ones" - K.S.

I think the weirdest was a 10 person orgy; a group of five guys came in together wanting a group orgy and they selected 5 of us girls. It was very unusual with a lot of hands, and other body parts flying around.

As for memorable it would have to be the young guy brought in by his friends (this was when I first started working); he was a virgin and not only had they been giving him grief over it they brought him in and paid for a session. When I got him into the room he confessed that he didn't want to do anything, it turns out he believes until waiting for marriage but that his friends were pushing him to do this.
We decided to have a little fun with his friends and proceeded to spend the entire session making loud sex noises (trying not to giggle); when time was up I walked him out and made sure his friends believed that he was truly the best lay I had ever had.

Question 2: "Have u ever had a really bad experience" - N.H.

I have had a few that put me off a bit, like wanting me to call them daddy or being a little too rough but nothing really bad.

Question 3: "Do you still deal with normal workplace gossip ect?" - J.G.

There can be some gossip at places I guess, but not where I work at the moment.

Question 4: "Does it ever get competitive between yourself and the other ladies?" - J.G.

It can get competitive where I work, but only in a good way, like "how many guys can you do in one shift" etc.

TIP OF THE DAY: Watching porn

A little porn date can be fun with your OH, here is a few tips to having a very fun night!

1. Set it up in your bedroom - have fresh sheets, light some candles and have the porn set up on your computer or tv, make sure you put your computer on a dresser or other surface so that it can be seen from the bed.

2. Mirrors! - Try positioning any mirrors (preferably full length) so you can watch yourselves

3. NO kids!! - If possible have Grandma take them for a sleep over...if not then tuck them in and lock your door (some things are best left unseen lol).

4. Clothing - get yourself that sexy outfit...try to find one that you can leave on whilst having hot sex (it can be very erotic).

5. Toys - Lay a couple of toys out on a nearby surface (they can be used a bit later on)

6. Enjoy - Cuddle up and watch some porn...eventually you can start playing around and when you do leave it on (the sounds can be a sensory pleasure).

7. Mimic - Try out some of the moves they are using on the movie.

*.Make sure you have used contraception lol


Finally I am going to give a plug to a friend, Kellie L Castle from "A Heart Captured Photography" who took some amazing pics of me like the one below. If you are in the Adelaide area look her up, she is just starting up but as you can see has some real talent :)

So goodnight ladies, once again it has been fun and challenging.
Keep Sexy
Miss Amalie
xxx